Don’t live life for others. All interactions are mutual or there is no interaction. Give take, take give. Take only what is yours to take and let them keep the rest. Give only what you are willing to have them take. Interact, overact, overreact, confront your fears, anti-social etiquette, reduce them to tears.
Ridiculousity is a way of life, not a game or a competition. Share it and experience it.